It takes a lot of hard work to woo a new client,
Here are ten easy ways to lose one.

The acquisition of new clients is the reason behind the existence of any business development plan – at the individual, group or law-firm level. Once a new client has been wooed and won, the task becomes not only retention, with the goal of broadening and deepening the relationship, but also turning your clients into advocates for your services.

After all, research shows that it takes as much as seven times the time and money to acquire a new client as it does to get more work from an existing client. Once a client has made a commitment to you and your firm, be sure to avoid any mistakes that might jeopardize the health of the fragile new marriage.

Often, lawyers and law firms lose business because they stop “courting” their clients and take them for granted. Here are ten sure-fire ways to cool off the relationship with an existing client:

While the work is on-going:

Ignore preferences. When your business development efforts have been a success and a client makes the decision to use you and your firm, take some time to find out how the client prefers to do business. What is the client’s communication style – buckle right down to business or spend a little time on social pleasantries first? How do they prefer to communicate – telephone, fax, snail-mail, extranet? What kind of documentation, in which format, do they require? Which billing format works best with their accounts payable system? By asking up front, you demonstrate concern and prevent misunderstandings down the road.

Don’t communicate. Determine how often a new client wants to hear from you. Some want regular updates to pass along to their superiors; others prefer to hear from you only at pivotal junctures. You never know unless you ask. Do not veer from the agreed-upon matter or case strategy without discussing this deviation with the client. There may be a good business reason why the client prefers the original plan. Find out who should receive copies of which kinds of communications.

Be unavailable. When asked about the reasons they fire lawyers and law firms, general counsel consistently rank non-responsiveness at the top of the list. In fact, one of our attorneys – who has a $40 million book of business – ranks responsiveness as his number-one success criterion; he returns all calls within one hour. When a client contacts you, he or she must receive a timely response. Set the expectations up front. The response doesn’t have to be the answer to the client’s question; you can simply say that you are working on an answer. The response doesn’t have to come from the lawyer; someone else familiar with the work can acknowledge the query and let the client know that a lawyer will be contacting them shortly.

Be too busy. Each client wants to be treated like he or she is your most valued and important client. When you are speaking with someone about work in progress, never act overwhelmed (even if you are) or indicate how busy you are with work for other clients. Focus fully on the client and the conversation at hand. If your clients think that you are currently operating at capacity, they will not ask you to do more work.

Bill for everything. You want your clients to think of you as a trusted adviser. This is never going to happen if a client imagines the clock running every time he or she is interacting with you. Do not bill for short phone calls. Spend time in off-site business and social situations. Drop by the client’s office for an “off the clock” chat and tour.

When the case or matter is complete:

Forget to say thank you. When the work is done, thank the client for the opportunity – letting the client know that you are very interested in continuing the relationship. This requires a hand-written note, at the very least – something more personal and more substantial than an e-mail. An initial project provides the foundation on which build a more enduring relationship.

Fail to conduct an end-of-matter interview. When a matter is concluded, conduct an interview to discover what worked and what did not work, and use this information to continuously improve your relationship with the client. Few clients will actually call you to share their concerns; the interview format gives them permission to do this – and provides you with valuable information. Do not be defensive; just listen. Make sure that you take concrete steps to correct any shortcomings in the process and let the client know exactly how you did this. Thank them for their honesty.

Don’t keep in touch. Cultivating a client relationship is a lot like dating – it takes a lot of courtship behavior over time to make a real impression. When you see an article a client might be interested in, put it in the mail with a note. When you have tickets to an interesting presentation in their field, invite them as your guest. If your firm is giving a seminar on a particular subject, ask them to co-present with you. If a breaking news story hits their industry, call to determine the impact on the client’s business.

Ignore the personal. In the upper reaches of the business development process, you will have a personal as well as a professional relationship with your life-long clients. Do nice things for them. Make notes about their families, community involvement and interests. Use these non-business-related aspects of their lives to keep in touch – without any expectation of business in return. These are the kinds of activities that earn you good clients – and good friends, as well.

Don’t make referrals. You are investing a lot of time and effort in business development efforts; so are your clients. Always take the opportunity to refer work to them, making personal introductions, just as you hope that they would refer work to you. Always take the opportunity to bring the people in your network together for mutual benefit. Your clients will appreciate the effort, and you will develop emotional bonds with them that are almost impossible to sever.

Many lawyers pay a lot of attention to potential clients during the courtship phase – when they are trying to woo new business. Once they are in the fold, the relationship becomes more business-like. This is a mistake. Continue to court your existing clients with the same intensity as new clients – or you will lose them.